Question

What should a Muslimah do when her family starts to hate her due to some misunderstandings and blames from her brother just due to his narrow mindedness and false ego while she never crosses her limits that Islam teaches and she has to cope with the economy of the home too. She is bearing every thing with a silence on the belief that Allah is with her. Her efforts are useless to make good terms with them, as Islam says about blood relations that do not cut off them .... Kindly guide me.

Answer

May Allah bless you with piety (Taqwa) and purity, strong Imaan, forgiveness of sins, have mercy on you, elevate your status, and bless you with knowledge of Deen and generosity. Ameen!

You need to stay strong. The world is not a just place. InshaAllah Allah will reward you for doing sabr on what your relatives say to you. Keep making dua to Allah to give everyone hidayah and continue your utmost best to keep ties together. Allah has commanded us to keep ties and we should, regardless of the situations that we are faced with.

Rasulullah (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) advised:

Join ties with one who cuts you off, give to one who deprives you and forgive one who oppresses you.

and
He who loves that he be increased in his sustenance and lifespan should join family ties.

May Allah make it easy for you, Ameen.

And Allah knows best.

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