Question

My husband died 3 months ago. I am still depress i feel lost lonely dont want nothing in this life anymore, but in the mean time i am keeping my salat and doaae to Allah because i know Allah the only one who can help me, i need sdoaae from u as well. Second i dont want to get married after my husband even i am still young but i am sure if i married i am gonna be unhappy also is not fair for the man i married, but the people they told me is haram if i did not get married but i dont think so i was looking in Quran and so many Hadeth but nothing to mention is haram pls advise?, also i want how i can protect my self from Fetan and Shayetan next to Salat and Dhekr and Doaae and Seyam,

Answer

1. We are really sorry to hear about your loss, may Allah grant him Jannatul Firdaus Ameen.
Please read the following article:

Cure for depression
http://islameasy.org/Cure_Depression.php

2) Sister, I totally understand your feelings but still we will advise to get married and start a new life. Insha Allah you will see the difference.
As you know, Nikah is a great bounty from Allah Ta'ala. The affairs of this world and the hereafter are put in order through marriage. There is a lot of wisdom and many benefits in marriage. A person saves himself from
sinning and his heart is put at ease. He does not have any evil intentions and his thoughts do not begin to wander and stray. The greatest virtue is that there are only benefits and only rewards in this. This is because a
husband and wife's sitting together and engaging in a loving conversation, joking with each other, etc. brings lots of reward.
 

And Allah knows best.

Ask Alimah Team

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