Question

A. When I was schooling I was with non-Muslims. So I didn't live like a Muslim girl and didn't know islamic rules much, but now I am doing my Higher studies and Understood about Islam and scare at it. So I started to pray 5 times and cover the hair, keep away from other sins such as listening music, watching Tv. But I don't Know much about Islam and I am worrying about it. Now I am starting to search and Study. But still I have some mistakes in my behavior which I am trying to correct. Please give me a Dua for this and some advices please. B. I am always getting insult by others because i don't kmow how to manage the things and I am not much intelligent, it hurts me lot. But I feel it is a dunya (worldy life) and try to leave those worries. Please help me by giving some duas to make my life organized and to get respect by others without get insulting in the Society, please help me.

Answer

May Allah bless you with piety (Taqwa) and purity, strong emaan, forgiveness of sins, have mercy on you, elevate your status, bless you with knowledge of Deen and generosity'. Ameen! The Muslim Ummah regards you as an obedient daughter, a respected sister and a dignified woman in Islam!

This life is a one-time opportunity to achieve everlasting happiness in the life hereafter. Allah Almighty is showering countless blessings upon us everyday. Every moment has a great potential to achieve high-ranks in the court of our Creator. Every minute is like a gold coin. The heart and tongue are gifts from Allah to earn millions of rewards (Hasanaat) for the Akhirah.

Daily reading a book of good deeds helps in this situation. You may print a chapter of Muntakhab Ahadith (http://www.islameasy.org/quick_books.php) and read with your family for 10 minutes together. then make Dua.
http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/Emaan.pdf
http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/Belief_Hereafter.pdf

Please review our main page for Dua scripts.

Respected sister, kindly study the articles in sisters section of our site
http://islameasy.org/articles.php

Make a list of other sins/mistakes and try to stop from those, one by one.
If you are not sure, please ask.

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The following articles and booklets will inshaAllah help answer some of the questions which are frequently asked.

Cure for depression
http://islameasy.org/Cure_Depression.php

How should Every Muslim live through day and night?
http://www.islameasy.org/MuslimDailyLife.php

Prayer and Du'a - Strong connection with Allah
http://islameasy.org/index.php

A gift for the Daughters of the Ummah ' (topics on Purity and Tahara, what every Muslim sister should know). by Jamiatul Ulama (KZN), Ta'limi Board, South Africa
http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/Tuhfatul_Banaat.pdf

Gift for New Muslims (Basics of Islam)
http://islameasy.org/pdf/Gift_NewMuslims_Print.pdf

Status of Woman in Islam by Shaykh Ahmed Abdul Mujeeb Qasmi (translated by Muhammad Owais Jafrey) http://www.islameasy.org/K225_WomenInIslam.php

And Allah knows best.

Ask Alimah Team

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