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Masha Allah it is commendable to note that you have the wish to serve your family and see to their needs. As a wife, you can be a great support to him emotionally.
We should keep in mind that Allah, through his infinite mercy, has not placed any financial responsibilities on a female, whether a mother, daughter or wife. Financial responsibilities are on the males, as a husband, father or son.
However Islam has not stopped a female from having an income. If you have a talent in, example: cooking and baking, dressmaking, or looking after children, you could earn an income in the relaxed atmosphere of your home.
In the States many Muslim women are working from home and they earn a substantial income, which is all their own. Even after having a good income, Islam does not ask them to spend on anyone.
The example of Ummul momineen Khadeeja (R.A) comes to mind. She inherited the business of her father and having no males to look after it, she did so herself. She had people working for her and, in fact, this is how she heard about the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) and struck by his honesty and integrity, she sent a proposal to him!
Lastly, I would like to mention that you could talk about your concerns to your husband and communicate with him. Tell him about your concern for him and take his suggestions as well. Maybe his kind words and support will
remove your stress and make you feel better.
[Editor's note]:
In Islam, a sister is regarded as a treasure, preserving her modesty and chastity. Allah likes those who can control their desires and do not go close to any sin.
http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/Hijab_newEdition2.pdf
Kindly read the Hijab book and share with your sisters.
This is the best way to protect the purity of sisters. http://www.islameasy.org/hijab.php
Kindly review this article:
Status of Woman in Islam http://www.islameasy.org/K225_WomenInIslam.php
May Allah guide us to the good, Aameen!
And Allah knows best.
Ask Alimah Team
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