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Question

I am a grade 12 student and soon getting married over the summer. From the past 4 years i have been asking something which i know i lack, to be granted to me that can complete my feminine character, but i haven't gotten a response. i have tried allot to work for what i want but i still get no results. i am willing to be a wali of Allah to get this desire of mine miraculously, but the time that i have left in my hands is not enough to study further my religion to the extent of that of an Alimah then become one and then get that miracle, it takes years. i have only 2-3 months left in my hands and i urgently need that. if i knew that direct miracles from Allah can be asked by a Wali of Allah then in those four years of my highschool i would've taken Alimah programs but i am in a state where i really need that quick response to my dua. i don't chat with opposite gender, i have been wearing hijab and abaya all my life, i do have enough knowledge of my religion but not enough to be called a scholar or Alimah, i don't eat unlawful or drink or dress unlawful. i try to pray all 5 prayers {fajr is hard} otherwise i am very prompt in salah and i have been patiently waiting for this dua for 4 yrs i did mention that this should be good for me not bad.... i just don't know what is preventing me from getting my dua answered. there is a durood where if you read it 7 times then surah rahman 20 times then finish off with that durood 7 times again then you will get your incomplete, impossible wish to be completed within a short period of time by the grace of Allah so how come....well sister i just want to say that i have wanted this all my life, is there anything i can do to achieve this right away although i know steadfastness and being humble / patient in response to dua is better. i just want a direct miracle from Allah or just want a durood that if i recite it then it will allow me to get what i want with the blink of an eye.

Answer

The Muslim Ummah regards you as an obedient daughter, a respected sister and a dignified woman in Islam!

May Allah bless you with piety (Taqwa) and purity, strong emaan, forgiveness of sins, have mercy on you, elevate your status, bless you with knowledge of Deen and generosity'. Ameen!

Respected sister, put your hope, trust and faith in Allah Ta'ala. Read Salatul Hajat.

May Allah assist you in your difficulty, Ameen. It is a fact that such decisions are in the hands of Allah alone, and Allah decides if and when to bless anybody with this bounty. As such, plentiful Duas and abstinence from the prohibitions of Allah are extremely essential. Among
the various Duas a person may adopt in this situation, the best and most beneficial is Istighfaar (seeking forgiveness for ones wrongdoings). In the Quran'e Kareem, being blessed with progeny has been enumerated under the benefits of Istighfaar (Surah Nooh, Verse 12). One should, therefore,
engage in frequent and abundant Istighfaar.

The following articles may also help you:

http://islameasy.org/K202_Tawba.php
Tawba & Istaghfaar ' Repentance and seeking forgiveness

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http://islameasy.org/Cure_Depression.php

How should Every Muslim live through day and night?
http://www.islameasy.org/MuslimDailyLife.php

Dua from Qur'an
http://www.islameasy.org/Dua_from_Quran.php

And Allah knows best.

Ask Alimah Team

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