Assalaamu Alaikum I have been married for 9 years but have living separately from my husband for 2 and a half year. Whilst i was married living with him he never fulfilled his financial responsibilities, arguing with me all the time and even recording my conversation and arguments to show others. Now he is apologetic again and wants to come back. He approached my family and myself to ask forgiveness. Although i forgave him, I cannot see myself with him anymore. There is no trust, love or respect. My question is am i sinning by feeling like that and not wanting to go back to him now that he says he has changed?


Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem   Assalaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatuhu

Respected sister,

May Allah reward you for your patience and bless your home with peace and happiness. Ameen.

Ask your husband to go for professional marriage counseling services in your city.

Work with your local masjid Imam to resolve differences.

Seek advice from your family elders to help resolve these issues .

For happy marriage life, study articles and lectures in "Paradise at home" section:

On ideal human life, learn educational resources on IslamEasy site.

And Allah knows best.

Ask Alimah Team

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